Service/sermon July 12, 2020 Leighmoor Uniting Church -Rev Barbara Allen Possible hymns: TIS 703: As the deer pants for the water TIS 125: The God of Abraham praise TIS 442: All praise to our redeeming Lord TIS 595: O Jesus, I have promised TIS 650: Brother, sister, let me serve you Call to Worship Generous God, you are beyond all imaginings, all formulas. We worship you, the great gift-giver. Gift us with grateful hearts, open hands, and gentle souls. Let us worship you today, and always, Amen Prayers of Adoration, Thanksgiving and Confession God of life, our solar system is a magnificent creation. The galaxy, the Milky Way, contains the moon, the planets, and more than 2 billion stars. In the universe we see some of your glorious works. God of life, within the smallest insect, and inside the tallest giraffe, and in everything in between, is your breath, the breath of all creation. In birdsong and in the calls of other creatures, we hear the work of your hands. God of life, in the dampness of winter’s drizzle and showers, in the chill of a frosty morning, we feel the work of your hands. God of life, you also gift us families and friends. We thank you for the gifts of love, of friendship, of encouragement. And yet, as we remember these gifts, and many others, we come before you to confess our sins, to say we have not measured up to be the people you have created us to be. Forgive us. Forgive us when we have neglected your creation, of which we are stewards. Forgive us when we have taken the wonders of this world, this amazing planet, our home, for granted. Forgive us when we have failed to love others, or have taken their love for granted, especially in families. Forgive us if we have favourites. May we see that danger, and seek to love all, equally. In a time of silence, we remember others things for which we seek forgiveness. God is love Through Christ our sins are forgiven (thanks be to God). Take hold of this forgiveness, and live your life in the power of the Spirit, Amen Bible Readings: Genesis 25: 19-34 Matthew 13: 1-9. 18-23 Sermon What a troublesome family! This legacy of Abraham’s! From the near sacrifice of Isaac-to trickery and deception! We go from drama, through to a love story where Isaac is comforted after his mother’s death, due to the love of his wife, Rebekah, to this! Sibling rivalry, and the disastrous results of favouritism! Problems in parenting are not confined to our times! School holidays-usually good times for families, can also be stressful-emotions are on edge, tantrums erupt, personalities come into play. Just think of a family holiday-for some of us that was quite some years ago-and now-with lockdown-impossible to do-so no long car trips. But we can remember, can’t we? The elbowing in the back seat…the “Are we there yet?” The whinging, the petty arguments. Or shopping. “I want what she’s got!” Or, if one child is given something-the other thinks it is better than what they received. In my husband’s household-growing up-if a cake or dessert had to be sliced-one of the children would cut…the other would choose which slice they would have. (that scheme worked in a two-child household!) Peace! Ah-if only it had been that simple in today’s story. We see struggle. We see sibling rivalry. We see the dangers of favouritism. Today’s reading needs to be read, with another unassigned lectionary reading in mind. Next week we are three chapters ahead, in Genesis 28 BUT this rivalry, and stealing, happens again in Chapter 27, when Jacob steals Isaac’s blessing from Esau. We need to have these stories side by side to really grapple with the consequences. The consequences of having favourites. One Australian comedian said that when a parent says to his or her child: “Darling, I don’t have favourites,” you can bet your bottom dollar that parent means “You are not my favourite!” Is that true? It is interesting to note the many similarities between this story of the birth of Jacob and Esau, and the birth of Isaac. Rebekah is barren, as was Sarah-the Lord finally granted Isaac’s request for a child (which is odd in itself-how were Abraham’s descendants going to be ‘as numerous as the stars of heaven and as the sand that is on the seashore’…without a child? Of course he had other children-Ishmael, and others with the wife he married after Sarah’s death, Keturah…but the promise was thought to be continued through the line of Isaac.) Rebekah’s utterance “Why do I live?” as they struggled within her. She wasn’t prepared to put up with this (yes, childbirth is difficult-it is life threatening-we forget how dangerous it is and why prayers were recited in times past). Rebekah was at the end of her tether, so she went and asked God about it, or consulted God through an oracle, which goes to show though desperate, she was not as yet resigned to her fate. ‘the elder shall serve the younger’ : family law. Usually the elder son was entitled to an inheritance which was double that of the younger; however, in Mesopotamian legal practice, the sharer in the larger portion could be designated, contrary to the actual order of birth. The interesting thing about this is, that this was later outlawed (in Deuteronomy 21:16 [setting out laws regarding the children from more than one wife]: ‘on the day that he wills his possessions to his sons, he is not permitted to treat the son of the loved as the firstborn in preference to the son of the disliked, who is the firstborn.’ The tradition behind this narrative as well as behind Genesis 27, is a focus on the prehistory of the nations of Israel and Edom. The contrast between the two is highlighted: Esau is a man of the outdoors, who is given to hunting. Jacob, on